previously,zaman nenek moyang kite,they do respect each other,,kids will give respect to their parents,lil brothers/sisters will respect to their older brothers/sisters,,at school,standard one student called 'abang or akak' to the upper standard,,
now so called millennium century,do u realised,student in standard 2,3 just use 'aku and ko' when they're having any conversation to other people that beyond their own age,,i really cant accept this,,i don't know,where the old days' good manner disappear??,,i used to hear the story about 'kids being rude to their parents',,
is this supposed to be happen,??,,is it because their parents fault,or the children's fault,the environment's faults?,,herm,I'm not here to judge anyone,,
but,KITE PIKIR LA SENDIRII !!
Narrated Abu Huraira ra.:
A man came to Allah's Apostle and said, "O Allah's Apostle! Who is more entitled to be treated with the best companionship by me?" The Prophet SAW said, "Your mother." The man said. "Who is next?" The Prophet SAW said, "Your mother." The man further said, "Who is next?" The Prophet SAW said, "Your mother." The man asked for the fourth time, "Who is next?" The Prophet SAW said, "Your father. "
Narrated Abu Huraira:
The Prophet SAW used to say, "O Muslim ladies! A neighbours should not look down upon the present of her neighbours even it were the hooves of a sheep."
these are some pieces of article about manners, I've read that i wanted to share :
- Speak highly of your parents and show respect for them, even if you don't always feel that way. If you can't, avoid speaking about them at all. It's tacky to insult those who brought you into this world or raised you. Don't air family dirty laundry: it's tacky and rude.
- Do not swear or use filthy language. It's unprofessional! People doing this are usually very immature and lack self-control or respect for themselves and others! Curse words not appropriate and you'll begin to feel more comfortable avoiding them. Profanity indicates an angry person and it puts people off immediately as it's distasteful and offensive. Using decent vocabulary gives the impression of intelligence, self-respect and character.